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Random (another DNA PSA)

  • isthisagoodtime
  • Jul 7, 2023
  • 4 min read

One of the crazy things about DNA is the truly random nature of genetic inheritance. A person inherits roughly 50% of their DNA from each parent, but only for identical siblings is it the same 50% from each. By the time this distribution reaches the next generation or the one after that, differences are multiplied even more. This confuses the heck out of people -- how can Samantha, which whom I share 60 centiMorgans of DNA, and Belinda, with whom I share 320 centiMorgans of DNA, both be second cousins to me and to each other, when our "numbers" vary so widely? The answer, of course, is that Samantha and Belinda and I each got a varying amount of DNA from our shared great-grandparents. Lots of people use the very scientific Gummy Bear diagram to promote a more intuitive understanding of this concept, but I think Vegetable Soup makes more sense.


You'll notice that the corn has gotten mighty scarce in our bottom mixture. Yet another mix from same two "parent" ingredients might have more corn and less peas. Nobody is ALL corn or peas or carrots or potatoes to start with, either. If you're picky about your vegetable soup and carefully remove all the lima beans before consuming (who, me?), you know that some bowls will have a bunch while another bowl has only one or two. The random nature of just which bits of your parent's DNA make up the 50% you get is similarly random.


This explains why my brother and I have matches to different people, and even different "ethnicity" estimates. This table shows our estimated (i.e. "we haven't totally figured out how this ethnicity thing works yet, but here's a general idea") origins according to Ancestry.com. His ladle of DNA has different ingredients than mine; apparently, his is loaded with extra French.



Keep in mind that there are several other DNA database sites -- 23andme, FamilyTreeDNA, MyHeritage, Geneanet, LivingDNA, GEDMatch and I'm probably missing some. You can only match someone if they either test with or upload to the same database. Most sites offer their own ethnicity analysis, too.


In terms of the total number of matches, everybody's numbers will be very different. It's not uncommon for someone to have hundreds of thousands of matches, or to have tens of thousands of close matches. And it's equally common for someone to have far fewer in each category. It's all just a matter of who exists and who has tested. Ancestry.com has the biggest database, for sure, and the most productive for those of us whose ancestors have been in North America for a bunch of generations. For someone with more recent European ancestors, one of the other databases may have better results. And for those with South American or Asian ancestry... there aren't very big databases out there just yet.


Here are my numbers on Ancestry:


And here's the breakdown for Patrick's:

So out of the exact same database of people, Patrick matches roughly seven thousand more! His random bits match their random bits more than their random bits match my random bits.


We can look at those differences a bit more closely. The next table shows Patrick's and my top 15 matches in order. There are four people who make both lists, albeit in different places on each. None of our matches are closer than 2nd cousins one removed -- we share the same great-grandparents with them. Since our parents were only children and our grandparents had few siblings who also had few children, it's not at all unexpected. I've never actually met any of the people on the lists.

I know the colors in that table don't exactly harmonize; they are the colors I use to code my matches. The idea is that all the matches who are also descended from ancestors that they shared with a particular set of my great-grandparents will have the same color applied. Warm colors are Mom's side, cool colors are Dad's side.


Now, of Pat's 44k and my 37k matches, I haven't divided all of them into match groups. Without a shared ancestor in their family tree or shared matches already in a group, they just go into an "I don't know yet" bucket. These are usually 20 cm or lower matches, indicating our shared ancestors are likely to be 6 generations back or more. But, you never know, sometimes a 6 or 7 cm match will obviously fit into one of the groups, and they may be the key to solving a puzzle!


Based on the total number of matches that I have divvied up for each of us, this table reflects the proportion that fit into each group. Severin St. Peter and Maria Robert (navy blue) were French Canadian, so there's Patrick's bumped up French ethnicity.


Why so many of some and so few of others? Well, it could be that descendants of those "few" lines haven't tested, or they haven't tested with Ancestry. However, there are certainly descendants of some of the "many" who haven't tested, either. In general, it seems to be about fertility, especially four, five and six generations ago.


On the other hand, among those 2% of Barker and Moffatt matches, and the 3% of the Thomas and Strowbridge matches, there were people who were the key to finding mystery ancestors. If those one or two people hadn't tested with the same company as me... it would all still be a mystery. It's kind of miraculous, in a way.


Do some ancestors want to be found, or the Universe want us to find them? Or it is just random? I guess I'll take luck wherever I can find it.


No lima beans, though!




 
 
 

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Guest
Jul 23, 2023
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Your dad and my maternal grandfather probably would have had lots to talk about. My grandpa worked on the Apollo 11 and 13 missions.

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Guest
Dec 26, 2023

What a lovely article on your adventures in genealogy and meeting wonderful cousins.


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Guest
Nov 18, 2023

My grandmother was a baker who made 4-tier wedding cakes and made bread but I found out in August that one branch of my family (descended from her sister) had confectioner as a profession in the Census. My father's cousin was descended from this line but till then I didn't know which branch she was from.


Thank you so much for your writing.

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isthisagoodtime
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Nov 19, 2023
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Thank you so much for sharing! Who knew there were so many confectioners?

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Guest
Sep 15, 2023

Interesting to learn of your grandfather's life, which sure started out with some adversity. It looks like he really turned that around in trying to be a good father...though still keeping secret how his early life had been. I couldn't find this posted over on Facebook under the group Generations Cafe'. I would have made this comment there if it had been there.

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isthisagoodtime
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Oct 13, 2023
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Thank you for this! I'm sorry it took me so long to see it. Yes, I think the secrets they kept meant my grandparents were rather isolated. It's sad, really!

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Guest
Aug 26, 2023

I enjoyed reading your 'prattle', it is very similar to the searching and discovering I have experienced. Thanks for sharing. 😎

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isthisagoodtime
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Aug 29, 2023
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Thank you so much!

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Guest
Aug 05, 2023

What an enterprising family!

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Guest
Jun 24, 2023

Your mother sounds like an interesting person. Shame about the T bird. My brother once had a Triumph with the wooden panels. That was an interesting quote about the bread too.

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isthisagoodtime
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Jun 26, 2023
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Thank you! I was also a HUGE Triumph fan, that was my dream car!

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Guest
Jun 23, 2023

I am likely the only person, ever, who bought a Corvette one day on a whim!! I was actually helping a recently single friend look for a car--but I too was recently single and thought the Corvette was just my style. I loved that car although some prior research would have told me a 77 'vette was not much more than a pretty lemon! The bank manager sighed when she reminded me that the car payments would be more than my monthly rent!! Was I discouraged? Not on your life. At the end of 6 months I sold the car--since every time I drove it the car ended up in the garage for repairs. BUT--and this is a big BUT--I had a Corvette at the age of 26 and newly-single--and I LOVED it.

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isthisagoodtime
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Jun 26, 2023
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Good for you! That's what I like to hear!!!!

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Guest
Jun 16, 2023

How terrific that you have the photos of the Corvette and know so many details to share with relatives. Enjoyed this post so much!

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isthisagoodtime
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Jun 26, 2023
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Thank you! I have the original maintenance agreement for the car (or, more correctly, the digital image of it, now).

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Guest
Jun 09, 2023

I had never heard of the Filles du Roi until just the other day, when I learned of some historical fiction books about them. My daughter introduced me to the Baader–Meinhof phenomenon several years ago, and this falls in that category. Thanks for the great read. I really enjoyed it.

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